What Happens After Finding Out You Have Anal Cancer

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“It’s cancer.” 

 

What did you feel when you heard your doctor utter these frightening words? Shock? Dumbfounded? A loss of breath? Whatever that feeling may be, it is without a doubt that nobody would ever want to have this news broken to them. 

 

Cancer is a terrifying disease that affects many different parts of the human body. It has taken the lives of many who feel that they still have so much left to do in this world. However, with swift actions and smart decision-making, you can fight cancer and continue to live your life to the fullest. 

 

A crippling blow

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So, you have anal cancer. It’s very rare, but it happens, with reports of more cases in women than in men. Most likely, your first reaction to finding out you have anal cancer is denial. You might have told yourself, “this isn’t happening,” and proceed as if you didn’t have anal cancer. You will repeat to yourself the phrase “I don’t have cancer” and wish for it to miraculously go away. This denial is the first of the five stages of grief. 

 

The next stage is anger. The most common question that grieving people ask is “why me?” In this stage, there is a tendency to put the blame on other things and let out your anger on different targets. 

 

Upon hearing that you have anal cancer, you probably wanted to lash out at the doctor for bringing you such heartbreaking news. You might be too young, or still have ambitions to realize, which can be the cause of your frustration. 

 

After releasing your anger and frustrations, you stop to think about certain “what ifs.” This stage is the bargaining stage. You make an attempt to direct your attention to what you could have done to prevent being in such a situation. 

 

“What if I had led a healthier lifestyle?” “If only I had known sooner…”  Another type of bargaining is making a negotiation to lose your sickness. For example, you promise yourself that you’ll be a better person if your cancer disappears. These possibilities linger in your mind to give you an artificial type of comfort.

 

Accepting you have anal cancer

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The feeling of despair suddenly tightens its grip on you. You do not feel like yourself and want nothing to do with others. In your private time, you sulk and gradually lose hope in things. You also try your best to distance yourself from others as to prevent any further pain for you and for them. This stage is called the depression stage. 

 

The final stage, which is called acceptance, is when you finally accept that your situation, in this case, anal cancer, is now your reality. You are able to calm yourself down and try to think logically of ways to live your life with anal cancer, or how to fight the sickness. Not everyone in grief is able to reach this final stage. Many are stuck in the first stages, denial, and anger. 

 

Doing something about it 

 

It takes time to accept that you have such a sickness, but a good grasp of the situation can help you set the right attitude. Cancer is curable as long as you act quickly enough to prevent its aggravation and spread to other parts of your body. You shouldn’t let your anxiety rule over you. Have courage and believe that when equipped with the right information, you can successfully fight anal cancer. 

 

 

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